Project Find A date
Our Five Step Program for dating
Step One :
Clean Up
Before you start your journey , clean up a bit, first impressions can be are very important when trying to get a date . Personel hygene is VERY important when trying to meet someone . Make sure to take a shower ,put on deodorant,brush teeth ,if your personel hygene is good try either a new outfit ,hairstyle,just anything that makes you feel good about yourself . When you feel good about yourself people will notice , and want to get to know you more .
STEP 2
let go of fears
Let go of your fear of rejection , because that just brings you down . Every person in the world has a match so just let things flow relax. Dont take it personally if you meet a few sour apples in the world along the way , you dont want them in your life anyway if there like that . Once you do this doors will open up for you , just remember everyone has a match , and if you dont put yourself out there ,think of what you could be missing .
STEP 3:
Build your confidence
A major problem is dating is confidence ,(example i cant ask her/him out because i know they will say no )
Wrong !You control your happiness , no one else does , you should never let other people control your happiness . If you want something more out of life , take it , get a new job , start meeting new people , join groups at the ymca ,ask people to go for dinner from your work that your normally dont meet . Heres a helpfull tip , everyone morning when you wake up and look in the mirror , instead of saying man i look horrible , say hey beautiful/handsome . When ever you think man im fat , say no i look good . Most of the time were our selves toughest critiques .Smile and laugh more , learn to appreciate the simple things in life , on your break go get a ice cream or call a friend . Eat to get healthier not just to loose weight . You have to love yourself for others to love you .
Step 4 :
Put Yourself out there
Ok guys this is the step thats going to get your rolling , you have to put yourself out there . Join new groups , meet new people , either by just going to a new gas station (which there might be a really cute teller at ) , join a book club , go clubbing , look up clubs and groups in your area (which is a really great way to meet people ) , Join a GOOD ,LEGITIMATE dating service , either online or at your local agency . Heres some examples of where you can go to meet people
at a park
movie theature
skating rink
at a carnival
at a party
clubs
grocery store
restaurant
groups like reading ,writing,party planning,
plays
musems
STEP 5
ask people out :
meet someone who you have a connection with ? Don't let the opportunity slide by, just simply ask them if they would like to go for a movie next friday , here say this hey are you free next saturday i was thinking maybe we could go to a __________ or something . Smile and if there busy dont give up , theres other fish in the sea , hey mr . /ms.Right might be right under your nose , and you might now even notice .
CONGRADULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You have now passed the our five step program , you are now an expert dater , congrats ,and have fun , just remember you control your happiness , Its your life ,you know when you need a change . Remember You have to love yourself for others to be able to love you .
